important to remember

5. dont tell your mom, your work, your friends, the people you want to date, or the people you want to work for about your blog. if they find out and you’d rather they didnt read it, ask them nicely to grant you your privacy.

that's from How to Blog by my friend and hero Tony Pierce and I've messed that up sort of. everyone knows I blog and I love it and it's great when people say "I read that on your blog" but at the same time there's stuff I need to vent about that needs another sounding board.

one where maybe there aren't any hits, maybe nobody reads. maybe.

at least one where I can talk about all the non-PG13 things I want to talk about on this blog but can't do because it would cause problems, or not reflect well, or whatever.

just somewhere that isn't here or stupid FaceBook or G+ or anywhere that has any real-world links and consequences

guess that's the trouble with becoming addicted to blogging, to the internet.

so if I update less here, that's why

I have a lot of things to say and they might be about you

sorry/not sorry